Wednesday 16 May 2012

The EX and the other Women

Is the ex woman/man affecting your relationship? How so?
During all my relationships, I have never concern myself with the ex or the other women, there was no need to because they were what they are called. I never lost trust over any guy I was involved with because some other woman likes him as far as I was concerned, if I do like why wont they. I have never listened to no friend concerning what he might do when when i am not around. Why should I be stressing about something that might not exist? Have you ever thought about that....anytime you stress your spouse over what your friends think? Now I say think, instead of what they say because that is important. There are times when they say what they saw, there is a difference. You must know your true friends who care about you and if they have seen certain things and share it with you, it is for you to keep an open mind especially if you yourself were already suspicious.

But if your spouse has done nothing wrong. Other girls like him and show it, his ex wants him back, but he has not show any indication that he reciprocates, then why are you stressing yourself and stressing him? Wanting him to give up all female friends, tense up when girls are around etc Wouldn't it be easier to enjoy your relationship? It seems though that some ladies enjoy the competition and without another woman or ex to compete with, they cannot enjoy a relationship. They want to get up in  someone's face and say how sexier they are and how the man doesn't want them and if they do not see they are old news... they just don't like the competition but the argument. 

Why do you think some girls remain with the guy they know cheating on them? Is it always love...oohh i am so in love with him, isn't he hurting you? There are times I believe they just want to have an argument with him and then talk to their friends about how the make up sex was sooo good. Where is your value? Where is your worth? Why are you the one who is fighting for him? If the ex is indeed the ex and the other woman is just that, then I am sure the word to the haters or to the other women/ex etc really is a waste of precious time that can be invested in improving your relationship with your man.


4 comments:

  1. OMG this such a great blog. If only more women would think like this. So sad. Continue your work.

    Dane

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    1. Ohh thank you Dane...I am sure by the time start reading they would be challenged and start rethinking the way they behave lol

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  2. Ever heard that the ex is so called because she/he is example of an extreme waste of time and also stands for expired. So why give them any more of your precious time. A prime example of what you should not have in the future.

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    1. I like the thinking...The ex is just what they are the ex. Don't waste anymore of your precious time.

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