Beware of Jezebels and Delilah

I am dedicating this blog to all the good men out there. I know that I was somewhat biased in my other blogs with greater concentration on women and understandably so as I am a woman, but this blog today is for you gentlemen.

BEWARE OF JEZEBELS AND DELILAHS

All that glitter is not gold
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I think we can all agree that there are some good single men out there who are generally seeking good single women. However, I am sure you have often heard, that the good girls end up with the bad men and the good men end up with the bad girls. Moreover, there are statements sometimes about how some of these bad girls are responsible for turning good men into bad men. Maybe true, maybe not, but what is fact is just as there are good and bad men out there, there are also good and bad girls. So men what would I am say to you, DON'T PUT YOUR HEAD IN DELILAH'S ANTS NEST OR GET TURN ON BY JEZEBEL'S SEDUCTION. Now how can you tell if you are with a Delilah or a Jezebel. Be vigilant and look out for these things:

• A woman who is only happy fortnightly or monthly...salary time

• A woman who talks down to you and at times even in front their friends or yours. Pull her up! There is no woman out there who wants a 'soft man'. If they do it and get away, they would lose all respect for you and they will continue doing it

• She always wants, she never gives and she is never satisfied. If you cannot buy her the expensive stuff she is upset and  she does not understand you cannot buy it at this time. Watch your pocket, she will deplete your resources.

• A controlling and manipulative woman. A part of being a woman includes being submissive to your man. If she wants to run things always, dictating who you should or should not talk to and  where you can or cannot go, Beware! She may also use guilt trips to control you.

• A woman who does not want to be seen in public with you, yet they are your woman or they only want to be seen with you when you are dressed a certain way (not in your work clothes for example if you are a mechanic, a carpenter or farmer). 

• A woman who is never wrong. Watch yourself!

• A woman who uses her body, sweet talk and sex to get what she wants. You might just like it, but is this who you want in your life?

• A selfish woman. She cares only about herself. She looks great because she pays so much attention to herself, but she pays little attention to your care and your needs. She may not be willing once to cook you a good meal because she does not want to stain her hands or break a nail.

Now those are just a few pointers and I would add here that some of these women are in church. The bible teaches that Jezebel had claimed to be a prophetess. So vigilance is key. Do not be caught up in outward beauty. All that glitters is not gold. And you may feel lucky to have her because physically she is all that and a half, but beauty fades while personal traits are there forever.