tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post595761366236484458..comments2023-11-03T04:32:33.438-07:00Comments on Talk to Jazzy: Jamaican Men: Through the eyes of a foreignerDr. Rose-Ann Smithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18078063493523706675noreply@blogger.comBlogger52125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post-16975240468201252962015-11-29T14:58:11.918-08:002015-11-29T14:58:11.918-08:00Stay away from keiwa labeach he's a liar and a...Stay away from keiwa labeach he's a liar and a usertoo smart seen thru himhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01511951111127854518noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post-81652784652546918802015-11-29T14:56:00.217-08:002015-11-29T14:56:00.217-08:00Stay away from keiwa labeach he's a liar and a...Stay away from keiwa labeach he's a liar and a usertoo smart seen thru himhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01511951111127854518noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post-40544094581249626952015-11-18T15:58:27.639-08:002015-11-18T15:58:27.639-08:00Hello everyone, I don't even know how I ended ...Hello everyone, I don't even know how I ended up on this page or maybe I can say that it's because sometime we are scared about we don't know...cultural differences sometime scare you... I just moved in Uk and met this Jamaican guy who does the street cleaner here. I never had problems to relate to people of different cultures,colour or social difference...but I think the last issue starts to matter to me... I really like this guy,I mean ,I was really attracted form the first time and when he asked me my number he gave it to me but he was really discrete, He waited before texting me and the first time we met he told me he felt like that a "complex"woman like me had talked to him and was now going out with him. He told me most people in the street wouldn't even talk to him because of his job. For me wasn't a big problem till the moment we went for dinner together and I found out that he wasn't really mannered...moreover he can't speak properly, and it's difficult for me to understand,but besides this, I still felt like I felt attraction and didn't want to give much importance to that. The point is everything is ok when it's just me and him, and if in the beginning I thought we could maybe just meet to have sex because I was attracted and he made me feel special,now I feel that by the way I feel him, but when I think about our differences ad interests and moreover he told me he doesn't like I talk to other men, and after we have sex he always reminds me that "pun pun is mine"(it's scaring!),I dont' know if I can keep on with this. He doesn't use drugs, he works hard, he has more than one job because he sends back money to Jamaica, he hasn't asked me any money or taking advantage of me,.I just feel frustrated because sometimes unconsciounsly even if we think we are all same,you feel that education differences make a lot. I can't share the things I like with him: museums, art , cinema etc But I really care about him and don't know what to do. He makes me feel alive....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post-38722016138499571282015-11-03T12:06:37.496-08:002015-11-03T12:06:37.496-08:00I wish people would stop generalizing men. In ever...I wish people would stop generalizing men. In every country there are disgusting men. Some chose Jamaicans but it never worked out. Others look for Trini, American, Chinese, Indian and get a beating of a life time. I prefer Asians and persons of mix races but at the end of the day YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU GETTING UNTIL YOU TRY!!! In Jamaica we say 'Puss and dog nuh have di same luck!" Don't forget, the same way you generalize Jamaican men, it is the same way men are generalizing women form your country or race. Is it all true what they are saying? No. There is something amazing in men from different countries that makes them special and unique. It's just up to you to find a good one!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post-74438457272506060592015-09-19T10:26:24.606-07:002015-09-19T10:26:24.606-07:00not to put a damper on your budding romance but......not to put a damper on your budding romance but... my ex fiancee did ALL of that.. he would even have his friends come on line and speak with me.. It got so that i went to jamaica and stayed with him for 3 weeks..it was amazing. So much so that when i came back to Canada i saved to go back 7 weeks later and this time was different.. I brought my son because he was a single dad and we were going to start merging our families because he had on the previous vacay proposed. it had great moments and there was bad ones.. i was nauseous, sad, and hormonal..yup you guessed it when i came home the day after i went to doctors and i was pregnant with 3 babies.. he was excited. the day after we decided to put up our wedding announcement on FB then hell broke loose. The day after he called to tell me it was over.. no reason, other then i was crying and it bothered him.. forward 2 weeks, i found out he had been cheating ALOT, he is now back with his sons mother, who he swore hed never go back with and i am 14 weeks pregnant and you guessed it he has had no contact. So, ladies, they will take your money, they will take your dignity, they will take your heart and they will throw it away and never look back.. Be careful.. He was smooth and did EVERYTHING right.. <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post-39811918319794459272015-09-19T10:14:09.013-07:002015-09-19T10:14:09.013-07:00To add to the above.. met an amazing man.. he was ...To add to the above.. met an amazing man.. he was the man of my dreams..he told me the same. It was perfect. so much so that he proposed in a restaurant. it was amazing..that was 3 months ago. Then 2 weeks ago, we were surprised to find out we were pregnant with triplets.. amazing right? not so much, the next day he said he was looking at pics of us and decided that he couldnt be with me anymore... and you guessed it, he blocked me and i have no contact with him or his family and i am now 14 weeks pregnant.. So, all that glitters isnt gold ladies.. oh, and he went back to the ex girlfriend who he swore he wasnt seeing, you know that story.. So heed my warning before its too late.. The pain is devastating be cautious please!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02703338587453571267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post-69977154796747363082015-06-05T13:07:23.964-07:002015-06-05T13:07:23.964-07:00I just don't trust them. If you think a young,...I just don't trust them. If you think a young, handsome Jamaican man is in his country, first of all is actually single and waiting on you around all those beautiful, flexible island women and the tourists going to and fro every single day you are out of your mind...but good luck. 9 times out of 10 honey you are a top up, a WU or a potential green card and they are very patient, that long con is nothing to them and chances are he is working on others simultaneously in case you don't work out. Why do you think they have such a large internet footprint? Don't play yourself. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post-33338852715095809162015-05-31T14:13:57.134-07:002015-05-31T14:13:57.134-07:00Ifm falling in love with a jamaican man 11 yrs my ...Ifm falling in love with a jamaican man 11 yrs my junior. We met online and he lives in his country and I'm from the states. He was born in st. Catherine and raised in Christiana. In the beginning of our getting to know one another I asked a ton of questions and still do. Every thing that I've asked and he's voluntarily told me panned out to be true. How do I know, because I have friends from jamaica and friends living in jamaica. Ladies/Gentlemen when a person lies they have to remember what they've said, and I've tested him in that area as well. I however; I have a slight reservation, I have issues with trusting men and we're so far apart certainly doesn't help. He's like he has to constantly reassure me on everything like his work, housing, if he has kids, girlfriends or even if someone is pregnant. I'm not oblivious to believe he's practicing celibacy so I try not to think about it, all I know is he's available for me at times and we literally have falling asleep while being on the phone for hrs with each other. I know when he's on the streets because I hear the buses in the car horns, I know when he's at work because I hear the noise from the machinery, I know when he's at the bar because I hear the music he literall.y tells me most All concerning him. I feel like I have pushed him to the point of insanity and he has not once raised his voice aura hung the phone up on me or called me out of my name. I even accused the man of using credit on his phone to talk to other women he begged me to count the minutes, once I counted up the minutes to seconds that we've talked it added up that we were indeed talking to each other all of that time. I cried because I accused of something that wasn't true. he seems to be a good guy not your stereotypical Jamaican men. I'm certainly not saying he's perfect but I know within my gut that he's a really good guy with good intentions and I don't want to run him away but being in a long distance relationship it can get frustrating and costly. Any advice on what I should do? 🔰👒💰 Thank youJamaicanLuvhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14493495729587959723noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post-86593571657072795862015-04-08T01:12:44.657-07:002015-04-08T01:12:44.657-07:00I met a Jamaican /American man online in August. w...I met a Jamaican /American man online in August. we kind of started emailing again October 2014. but By November to December,he was telling me that he loved me, because he was actually on the website looking for a possible wife or a long term relationship. we're still talking and he is very mature, intelligent and sweet, not to mention handsome. I am very much in love with him, but I am very much scared of what might happen and what his intentions are. I hope he is for real. I will see where this goes, but , ladies out there, never send anyone money that you have never met! if he is not real or who he says he is, I will be devastated. I will be okay though, however, he will not be, because God will punish him far more than I can! wish me luck!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post-44028168121107434292015-03-26T21:47:17.218-07:002015-03-26T21:47:17.218-07:00I met a jamaican man over 10 years ago..we were ol...I met a jamaican man over 10 years ago..we were older teens and had fun together then...i recently went back and saw him on my travels as he lives near my family, we are both grown with children now, he reminisced about the years before when we first met & instantly started talking to me about how he wanted to get me pregnant before I left the island..and move to my country to live with me and my child (his said his brother did this exact thing with an american girl and ended up in america because of it) i was taken back...he barely knows me now & he has a baby mother and 3 children in jamaica that he lives with ...so why would he want to leave them for a woman he hasn't seen in years? I figured for a greencard or visa? I told him that life in foreign isnt easy and to think rationally. We spoke everyday for 2 weeks when I returned home but when I made it clear I would never have a child for him & just wanted us to remain friends like we used to be he cut all contact and I haven't heard from him since. is he a typical user.... or??? Just Be careful ladies.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post-81224617851180353002015-03-08T17:43:47.324-07:002015-03-08T17:43:47.324-07:00I met a Jamaican man online. It was a christian we...I met a Jamaican man online. It was a christian website. He said he worked for an oil company and was getting ready to retire. Widower and he had one son. We had what I thought was a real relationship for 13 months. We emailed, Im at least every day. We talked on the telephone at least once a week. He even wanted me to call him before he would start his day. He made me feel really special. He was never rude always very polite and complimentary. We would even pray together. I had just lost my mom the month I met him. He ended up telling me about this business investment. Which now I see the red flags but he ended up scamming me out of $16,000. It wasn't all at once. But the last time I gave him money in October he was suppose to come and join me here in the US. He then claim he son was in the hospital and needed a kidney. He was such a good liar. He left me with loans and took part of my retirement money. I am a struggling single parent. I let him know upfront that I wasn't load and what kind of job I had. How he could do this to me or any other person is beyond me. But what goes around comes back around. I hope he gets caught so no one else will have to go through what he has taken me through. I now am very hesitate to talk to any foreign men or go on any dating sites. I learned a valuable lesson women be very careful about the men you meet.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post-34685006552840487602015-02-24T18:44:48.909-08:002015-02-24T18:44:48.909-08:00I have no idea how I got here on this site but I a...I have no idea how I got here on this site but I am glad I did. As a Jamaican man living in Jamaica and reading all these unfortunate things that had happen to these ladies by Jamaican man it makes me sad to know that you had been mistreated, use, lied to and abuse by these men and you all deserve better, but please do not generalize all Jamaican men to be like this,there are good, honest and caring Jamaican guys out there, just as there good and bad in all races of men its the same for Jamaican men.Remember be Jamaican is just a nationality it does not determining if the persons is good or bad. A real man knows how to love,respect and treat his woman right, whether if his Jamaican or not. <br />ONE LOVE. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post-62930356116414987732015-02-22T14:06:06.259-08:002015-02-22T14:06:06.259-08:00After one month on fb..he wanted to marry me...aft...After one month on fb..he wanted to marry me...after 5 months of begging he stopped All contact after i told him for the third time I will never marry a man I don't knowAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post-39409947924969608022014-11-05T17:45:21.099-08:002014-11-05T17:45:21.099-08:00Your ignorance and poor judgement is screamingly l...Your ignorance and poor judgement is screamingly loud.You can choose to date, or be with the wrong person from any culture,not just Jamaican. You need adult supervision in your choices.If you fall for just about anyone that wears a pants,then you got a serious problem.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post-8378345727981365702014-02-18T23:50:31.333-08:002014-02-18T23:50:31.333-08:00I was in Jamaica 2012 and met this young man who c...I was in Jamaica 2012 and met this young man who claimed me as his future wife the moment he saw me. I did not believe him and thought he was joking, and I literally laughed in his face I told him that I was to old for him. We are 8 years apart, and I there is no way that this will work out. He asked me to give him a chance. I gave him my # and he actually called me the day I came back to the U.S. We have been talking ever since. He has had his short term flings as so have I, and we have shared it with each other as well. He states he is in love with me and we are talking about marriage since this year will make it 2 years since we have been in this long distance relationship. I have spoken with one of his sisters, mother, and 2 of his friends so they all know about me. He has been there to listen to me when times were rough, I had an aneurysm at the beginning of 2013, and he still continued to call as much as he could. Towards the end of 2013 he was beginning to feel discouraged that we were never going to work out and he started dating another girl, but it did not last long. He stated that all he could think of was me and that he realized I'm the one he wants. I told him he really hurt my feelings and broke my trust and that he will have to win it over. He is now putting in the time to win my trust over again. Even his friends say they can't wait to see me. For a young man of 21, he seems to have his mind set on being with me and ok with me being 29.....he says age ain't nothing but a number. I feel positive about him and us, but some advice is welcomed on my story....please and thank you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post-34974381016878347312014-02-17T17:35:35.234-08:002014-02-17T17:35:35.234-08:00Everything in life is about taking a chance. When ...Everything in life is about taking a chance. When it comes to men, Jamaican or otherwise, you can never be a 100% certain you can trust them, especially early in the relationship. I always believed in giving a man a chance to proof themselves though, unless he does something wrong. You can never really know what it is going on unless you do that. I will advise you to be vigilant while enjoying your friendship that hopefully will lead into a budding relationship. Too often, we get caught up in the feelings...the roses, long hours chatting, heart palpitating, anxiety for the next phone call/skype chat, that we become blinded at other things that might be showing their ugly faces then and there. So look out for little things, whether he seems too controlling or possessive, curse etc...things that you made up your mind long time that you would not stand for or compromise with. I hope for the best for you. We all want happiness.Dr. Rose-Ann Smithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18078063493523706675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post-41071023470673319032014-02-17T17:28:22.003-08:002014-02-17T17:28:22.003-08:00Great to have someone posted something positive ab...Great to have someone posted something positive about Jamaican men. It goes to show all is not the same. Thank youDr. Rose-Ann Smithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18078063493523706675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post-77535258329967682632014-02-11T16:04:49.529-08:002014-02-11T16:04:49.529-08:00Hi. I just met a Jamaican guy on the last days of ...Hi. I just met a Jamaican guy on the last days of my journey in Jamaica. Now every day we are talking on facebook or skype or email. I would really like to know him better, so he is already planning a trip here, money is not a problem at his family. I would really like to know him better and not rush into things. I just dont know what to think, i think i trust him, but i am not 100% sure. Any advice (im from Europe). Sorry if i spelled something wrong.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post-7710471434889916712014-01-26T01:03:02.015-08:002014-01-26T01:03:02.015-08:00WoW, Very Impressive! I think you covered all the ...WoW, Very Impressive! I think you covered all the major areas.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post-12403591515778892672013-11-24T21:23:20.380-08:002013-11-24T21:23:20.380-08:00So true. Go for the educated and cultured ones...n...So true. Go for the educated and cultured ones...no matter where they come from...most of all they must be a good person at heart. Most women make the mistake to go after the ones who look good physically, are good in bed but poor in character...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post-38496416971186515452013-11-24T21:17:16.184-08:002013-11-24T21:17:16.184-08:00Don't generalize. Not all Nigerians are better...Don't generalize. Not all Nigerians are better. I married one and he had many women too. They are just more secretive and deceptive which is worst. I still would take a chance with a Jamaican man who is educated. I must say the Nigerian takes care of my son. My sister did not have such luck and was beaten by two of them. I have never been beaten by any man although I am Canadian duppy know who to frighten. My other sister has been beaten by her Baja husband who had a child with a side chick...should I go on about my Japanese friend's daddy who's a cheater and has children outside or my Chinese cousin in law who did the same to my cousin...stop being so narrowed minded...<br /><br /><br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post-20642617254693676932013-10-23T01:49:47.276-07:002013-10-23T01:49:47.276-07:00My Jamaican man has no kids, works ridiculously lo...My Jamaican man has no kids, works ridiculously long hours, has principles and respect, values my intelligence, is honest (even when I would rather he wasn't) he's funny and sweet, he has a very even temperament and makes no attempt to control me, he has no desire to leave Jamaica but is going to because it's the only way we can be together, he's thoughtful and asks me for nothing, he rings 3 times a day and I can get him on the phone instantly anytime of the day or night, he tells me how beautiful I am and that he loves me a dozen times a day :) <br /><br />When I said I was thinking I'd love to give him a baby he said 'I'd really love that but if you have my baby you must be my wife'<br /><br />Oh yes, and he's a proper bedroom bully too! :)<br /><br />I think I have the best man in Jamaica! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post-89822608461714970312013-10-05T02:31:44.322-07:002013-10-05T02:31:44.322-07:00I decided to give this jamaican man a chance to se...I decided to give this jamaican man a chance to see what e wanted with me since he has persued me for almost 2 years. I treated him like crap on the phone and ran the other way when I seen him shopping around in my town. He has been working here for 12 years now in my town. We have been seeing each other for 2 months now. I still continued to treat him not so nice but he keeps wanting to be with me. He says he knows, my kind of lady. I am bossy and want and will have my own way. He says he accepts that because he knew by the way I talked and treated him before I decided to spend any time wih him. We spent alot of time talking and we have the same background and beliefs. He knows how I feel or things I am going to say before I do. He knows me so well it's scarey. I realy like him alot but won't admit how much. He has met my family and they like him too. When he goes home for 4 months to jamaica, I will stay with him and his mother for 2 weeks. He spends his money on me and wants to take care of me. Next year when he comes back we will consider getting married we are both in our 40's. I'm divorced and he's never been married. I have another year to think about this. I'm not inlove YET. For me that takes alot of time.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17622709528917667569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post-29976898848858982162013-08-17T17:57:09.762-07:002013-08-17T17:57:09.762-07:00Where I come from, they just marry us to get advan...Where I come from, they just marry us to get advancement in life. A Jamaican man always have "their righty woman" that's a Jamaican woman. In my country, no one can say that there has been a successful marriage between a Jamaican and our country women. Mine showed his true colors after three years of marriage. He brought his woman right into my house said she was his brother's woman.She was supposed to be the nanny for my child but people told me that my child was all over the place alone while the two of them were in my house.If they bring a Jamaican of the opposite sex into your house or spends a lot of time with one and says it's their uncle/aunt/sister/brother set for them. I guarantee you will find them bedding them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3941514596213196901.post-23463345617562738122013-08-08T04:54:09.412-07:002013-08-08T04:54:09.412-07:00Er.. based on the grammatical errors in your comme...Er.. based on the grammatical errors in your comment, I don't think you are qualified to call anyone else illiterate.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com